Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Missing you...

It has been a very busy time in my real life, and what I have found bizarre is the number of dreams that have invaded my sleep from my second life...as well as the nature of those dreams. I have not had the chance to be here, consciously, so something took me to sl in my dreams.

  I have not met a person here on sl that does not say rl comes first.  Does this negate the need that we have for the interactions that we have here on sl? I think not.  Nor does it keep us from missing the people that are here.

While away, I sent an e-mail to the only person that I thought would miss me here.  When I did not hear back, after a couple of e-mails, I stopped sending them.  Perhaps, we invest too much emotionally in our sl relationships.  But there it is.

Who's a needy fairy?

I am the person that I am, I have a very busy rl at times.  Other times I have more time to get on-line.  Exploring on sl is what I try to do with much of that time.  At the time I started this venture I did not expect relationships that would garner so much of my attention. Being independant is important to me. But it seems to come at a price. Right now, though I struggle with that, it is well worth it.

Respect is the best foundation for all relationships whether or not they are D/s. We love who we love in all worlds. If they love us back or how they love us back is their own business. I respect those I love, and i realize and accept that we all relate differently. My only hope is that those I love will allow the same for me.


  1. Hi! i value this place very much. Sometimes there is a leak from here into my dreams too. It makes me happy to know there is someone the same as me. This place has helped me so much and sometimes its hard to keep the two places distinct. Thanks Pippa!

  2. Hi - well i posted but it didn't take the first time. i have invested heavily in my relationships here in sl. My dreams bring my loves from sl sometimes too. Honestly i value you and those close to me in sl very highly. Sometimes the line gets blurred - but i'm here and as a friend i am loyal. Your writing here has helped me to understand things and i am grateful. i hope you continue to create here and i also very much hope to see you in sl.