GOR-addiction or what?

OK, I will say it here and in public. My name is Pippa and I like Gor. I think that some of the best RP occurs there. I happen to like the defined roles. This is a type of addiction that keeps drawing me back.

It is where I started in RP, before there was an SL. Gor is where I learned to crawl, to walk, and to crawl again, if needed. (RP wise that is)

I love the ritual, the clearly defined roles, the black and whiteness of it all.

That being said, I have been disillusioned by what I have seen on SL Gor. From my scant wanderings and from talking to a few people, I have had the impression of a bunch of exiles from World of Warcraft running around with weapons,calling each other bro. They seemed to be living in cities run by slaves, on every level, because Masters were too busy ...well running around playing with weapons. That said, I believe my impression may have been a hasty one.

Recently I have been persuaded that there are viable well run RP Gorean sims out there that are interested in intricate and well honed RP skills. Actually, I came to this realization since I participated in the Gorean Grid Wide hunt and had increased my exposure to more Goreans again. Now I am off in search of those sims. I am not sure that I am ready to give up my freedom and kneel as a Gorean slave.

However... a fairy can dream, can't she?

The hunt is on!!

Well,it took a bit longer than I thought it would, but I finally embarked on the Looking Glass Hunt!

I am sure that I am not meant to be a hunter, (I seem to be much more naturally hunted, if you know what I mean?) Soooo... this may be the last hunt for me for a while. My eyes ache from scanning for tiny mirrors!

I find that I never open the boxes, and frankly the thought of the people that litter boxes all over the stores of the participants infuriates me!

Oops, looks like I need to go to bed, I seem to be getting a tiny bit cranky! (For a fairy, at least)

The creativity of people on SL STILL amazes me to no end! Try this hunt, it is not easy, but well, nothing worth having ever is, is it?

The Looking Glass

OK ...you know I HAVE to do this one!!


Well it is a holiday weekend, and the weather is pretty bad...so why not join me?

Missing you...

It has been a very busy time in my real life, and what I have found bizarre is the number of dreams that have invaded my sleep from my second life...as well as the nature of those dreams. I have not had the chance to be here, consciously, so something took me to sl in my dreams.

  I have not met a person here on sl that does not say rl comes first.  Does this negate the need that we have for the interactions that we have here on sl? I think not.  Nor does it keep us from missing the people that are here.

While away, I sent an e-mail to the only person that I thought would miss me here.  When I did not hear back, after a couple of e-mails, I stopped sending them.  Perhaps, we invest too much emotionally in our sl relationships.  But there it is.

Who's a needy fairy?

I am the person that I am, I have a very busy rl at times.  Other times I have more time to get on-line.  Exploring on sl is what I try to do with much of that time.  At the time I started this venture I did not expect relationships that would garner so much of my attention. Being independant is important to me. But it seems to come at a price. Right now, though I struggle with that, it is well worth it.

Respect is the best foundation for all relationships whether or not they are D/s. We love who we love in all worlds. If they love us back or how they love us back is their own business. I respect those I love, and i realize and accept that we all relate differently. My only hope is that those I love will allow the same for me.

Mirror images

Wow, I have had more than a few comments, in IM, about my last post when I last logged on. Let me be clear, about something. I am not denigrating sl Master/slave relationships. There is a clear bond between this sort of meeting of the minds. However, if you are someone that is acting out submission without ever having knelt at someone's feet. how do you know how that truly feels? You and I sit here, behind the safety of a screen.For example, I was told once of a wedding on sl where the bride interrupted the ceremony with something like ((brb, my Ramen noodles are ready)) You tell me, how committed was she?

When I am here, rping that I am being tied to a post,spoken to in a certain manner, and then I am spanked, used or whatever...I have a very real visceral memory/connection to the real life experience and my response to the scene is multiplied exponentially. I understand, without doubt, what it takes to place myself in the hands of someone who has me helpless, and in his/her thrall.

I also know what it is like to live the experience 24/7. There are dimensions that I never could have imagined, had I not lived through them in rl. There are many tests to this sort of relationship, since it is not accepted conventionally, it remains under wraps. I have been called an anticipatory slave. "Thoughtful" is the vanilla word for it, I think. Vanilla friends have expressed concern at my "submissive" attitude. Please know that the most important word in a D/s relationship, is relationship. Maybe this is why I do not seek or wear a collar. I dearly love the people that I interact here, but I wonder if I am able to wear two collars? I know that people have a marriage in the real world and one here on sl, but is that me? For now I am content the way things are.

So if you are strictly in an sl relationship, please do not feel defensive or think that I mean that you are less committed. What I am saying is this... There are dimensions to your psyche that you cannot explore from behind a desk. For me, it was so much better to push off from the dock and set sail on an ocean of discovery , exploring in ways I had only imagined until then. That was the right course for me, it is up to you to choose the path for you.

BTW, from the day I met my Master, I have not played in rl with anyone other than him.

My kink is better than yours!

Let's face it, we are all wired differently. What makes blood rush thru my veins at a great clip...could very well leave someone else cold. (I doubt it, but it could happen!) So many choices, so little time!
Checklists are available that cover almost every activity/kink imaginable...and some that are beyond imagination...at least for me. I discovered this while in the process of listing my limits in world. I came across a kink that, in sl, is offered in a fashion I had not thought possible.

For me, the very idea was so abhorrent, my aversion so strong, that when placing my limits in my profile...'emphatic' would be a mild word for describing my aversion to the activity. That does not mean that the people onto that activity are wrong...it just means, it will not fit my particular needs.

In bdsm, (rl and sl) there is an us/them judgmental process that occurs. While we accept that one person's pain or humiliation is another's pleasure... there is a certain intolerance for some kinks. I am not talking about ones that could even be considered dangerous...the attitude is more of, "My kink is better then yours."

Here, where we can be anything we want... a fairy...a neko... a vampire... a Centaur ... a doll ...a furry .... ( I seem to have a personal affinity for the otters) Alts are often created by some who wish to explore some of the less accepted activities. Whatever form or need being explored by your avatar, the key is SSC. (Safe, Sane and consensual)

Safe~Physical safety is pretty much about as assured as you can get on sl , unless there is someone without any sense,(impaired) following the directions of another with as little sense, or at least lacking the sensibility to know or care about the danger.

Sane~Well... see the last statement...However, that said... Mental safety is still very much at risk. Remember there is a big red X in the corner, but sometimes, by the time that is used, the damage has already been done.

Consensual~ Consent is a tough one. Some say that by merely being here consent is implied. Some tout that to have consent all parties involved need to know everything about the other parties... or it is a lie. Does someone have to be fully informed ...do they have a right to know everything about the person they are playing with to consent? Probably not. I reserve my information to a select few.
So what does this mean for me? (Since no one is free of preconceived notions, even me)
Hopefully, the next time I see someone with a Dolcett tag over his head I will try to remember that he is probably looking at my fairy wings with an *eye roll* and a shudder...because there is a good chance he is thinking his kink is SO MUCH better than mine.
(On the other hand, maybe...dessert?)

When all else fails...hug your bunny

It has been a tough weekend, and sometimes you just have to spend some quality time with your bunny!

Clinic Madness!!

I had a crazy rl week, last week, with a lot of commitments. I know how boring that must be to most of you.

OK... both of you that actually take the time to read the 'blog. But I have had a wild ride in the last week, only to return to sl in a rush!

It was time to open the OB clinic on Nayeli. The design and build was by Jacobius Bravin. The clinic was furnished by your humble blogger. It is rumored that La Presidente may be visiting the site soon, for her first ultrasound. The location has been kept top secret!

Stay tuned!

Pippa Andretti, stepping through the looking glass to act as fairy Doctor, OBGYN to nymphs~

I'm late!

I'm late, I'm late for a very important date!

It has been a while since I have posted here. Both my rl and sl have been very busy.

So where was I ?

I was brought to the cube as part of a task, how fortunate is that, I ask you? Who knows how long it would have taken for me to find this place?

At first I was a bit intimidated...I mean it sounds like it might be a bit rough, and I have not RP'd in a very long time. So one day I ventured in, (after carefully removing my shoes and shopping all over for pantyless skirts.) I pulled myself together, reminding myself that this is a computer, and stepped onto the shores of Glint. Within moments everything changed. There was the equivalant of a brown out in SL. No log ins, no log outs, no TPs. I was there, on the desert nation known as Glint. All alone.

Impossible?

I have sometimes thought of as many as six impossible things before breakfast! (Lewis Carroll)

One of those things is to become fae or a fairy. Another...to be a mermaid...yet another...well, you will have to wait to discover that later!

So, Now time to explore?

Through the glass I go. Welcome to Second Life!

My First Post! Or do I really need to explain the name of my BLOG?

On January 7th of this year I rezzed into the world that we call Second Life. I have been here once before, long ago, but left for various reasons. The avis are not half bad now and when you are brand spanking new, you may be lucky enough to find yourself at Hyles Info Hub...They have all manner of things available to the new avi on the go! Clothes, shoes, Fairy wings, Vampire attitre, Neko attire...Did I mention clothes? Now wait...All of this and heaven too? (gasping) An AO! No more walking like a duck!

"Through the Looking-Glass, and What Alice Found There. "(1871) is a work by Lewis Carroll (Charles Lutwidge Dodgson). It is the sequel to Alices Adventures in Wonderland. (1865). Here the mirror theme runs rampant, including opposites, time running backwards, reading Jabberwocky, and so on. Alice ponders what the world is like on the other side of a mirror (the reflected scene displayed on its surface), and to her surprise, is able to pass through to experience the alternate world.

If the book were written today, think Alice might be in Second Life?