A bit of a rest~

I recently ran into my friend Jake. Neither of us have been in world much and the times that we have did not coincide. Imagine my delight when I had the opportunity to spend time with him?

We had some time exploring a few sims,just cuddled and talked...
Frankly, I needed that...even fairys need a a place to rest aside from a flower.

RLV~ One fairy's view ~ First an introduction...

First of all, I am not saying that the RLV is not for anyone in particular, just not for me. Please allow me to explain as simply as possible this intricate device. Be prepared, the explanation of the device may be longer than my explanation of why it is not for me. So in this post I will attempt to explain the workings of the RLV, in the next one I will explain my feelings about it.


The RLV~

The RLV is the Restrained Life Viewer. Originally created by Marine Kelley, it is a customized viewer that gives dominants a far greater level of control over their submissives. This modification of the second life viewer makes it possible for restrictions to be placed on subs that are simply not possible with the normal viewer.


Actually, just running the viewer makes the restrictions possible but nothing will happen unless you also wear an item that places restrictions on you.

With RLV restrictions IMs may be blocked, both incoming and outgoing, or IMs may only be allowed from certain individuals. It can block your ability to send or receive messages in chat. The effect? (Gag's, blindfolds and earplugs can now be 100% effective)


It can block the ability to send messages on alternate channels ...such as the use of emoters or other devices that relay text or accept commands(an exception list is possible.) There is a command that can also block the text from appearing over people's heads, in the chat window, so that the submissive may have no idea who they are talking to. If the dominant so chooses, you cannot open note cards. If you have note cards open when this is locked they will be closed at that time.


Sitting may be blocked, this is in two modes: you may not be able to SIT at all, or you must be within 1.5m of an item in order to SIT...or it can force sitting, locking you in place so you cannot stand, force you to sit on an item, no matter what your feelings are.


RLV can make any item undetachable, blocking the ability to wear clothes, allowing the dominant to forcibly remove clothes, or forcibly remove any attached item. There is a command that allows the owner to get a listing of all attachments and all clothes. This includes items attached to your hud. When an item is "locked"such as a collar you cannot unlock it or detach it, the menu options are gone, if you try to right click on them. Your inventory may be locked down so that you cannot open your inventory window. Marine Kelley also provides a free script that can be added to the contents of ANY item to give it the ability to be locked by the dominant.

Building may be blocked, as well as edit tools being locked and blocking the ability to rez objects.


Logins may be limited to your last location. So you cannot escape whatever predicament you may have been in by simply logging out then back in world in a different location..

The ability to TP may be blocked, or limited to specific landmarks, or allow you to TP only when invited by specific individuals. There is even a "force TP".. this feature allows the dominant to forcibly send the submissive anywhere in SL. No asking, no chance of complying or refusing, no discussion, just "poof" there you are, in the middle of a Gorean Sim, a nightclub, or a gangbang, at the whim of the dominant in control.

There are some really clever products designed to be used with the RLV...still, all choice is gone, with the RLV. Perfect for a bottom, but in my opinion, not for a submissive, at least not this one.



Why? I will explain soon...

A sigh of relief...

I have not been on line much lately. Only in short bursts. Devil of it is that rl sometimes really does come first, grrrrrr.

Imagine my surprise when I notice that my close friend Jake has placed a girl in his profile as “interesting” Actually, I think that he referred to "hidden depths". I was struck with a pang when I read that. What was the pang, I wondered? Surely, not jealousy?? I have prided myself on not being jealous. But could it be?

Actually it was not anger with him or the girl that struck me, it was a sense of loss. He has taught me so much, been so kind to me that I did not want that to stop. He has held me when I was confused and helped me to gain some perspective on my life in sl. OK yes, he has spanked me when I needed that too!

What do I care about other women? I never have before, (and there is a cast of thousands)why would I now?

I gathered myself together and sent an IM to him, though he was not on-line. The next time he was, evidently, I received a message from him (sort of a high tech fone tag?) The jist is that his on-line time has been curtailed and will be for a while, as well. Yes, there is a girl, but that has nothing to do with, and will not interfere with, his relationships with me or the other people who are so special to him. (Well I am paraphrasing, but that was the drift)

Now I can relax and return to my fairy ways, when I am able to be in world again, more often. I miss the people I care about so much. The are like rare gems that sparkle in the moonlight…precious to me. I just hope that they know how much they mean to me

An original!

I am often told about different designers on sl. Most of the time they are very nice but not unusually so. Not so with this one.

Her work is nothing short of beautiful. Not limited to just one or two outfits, I would be hard pressed to say that there was anything that I did not like.
(All of the wings are my own, except for the first set, called the beaded fairy) This is not a fairy designer. More of a designer of dresses you would wear while starring in your own fairy tale!

If you have a chance, stop by and see her work! There is much more than I have touched on here...

Traveling Artisan

I had some pics taken today.


It was at a place called Traveling Artisan. I met with Daron Brandeis and his partner Fallon Maertens. This was one of the places that I discovered when on the Gorean Grid Wide Hunt. He has an artist's eye, and on a personal note, I really liked both Daron and Fallon!

What do you think?

What to do when bored at the office?

Scan?

Another spanking???

Whether in the spirit of competition, or some sort of nesting thing, my good friend also decided that I needed a spanking...


When it rains, it pours, eh?

Within days of the incident, the said lady was in labor and gave birth to two beautiful twin girls! Not that I am taking credit for anything...
but...
you never know!

PS~Thank the heaven's that the lady chose to bend the rules about panties for the twins to allow nappies otherwise Glint and Nayeli would be a far less pleasant place to be walking barefoot!!

While I am on the subject of good dominants...

Last night, I happened to catch my good friend Jake after he had been toying with a submissive elsewhere. Now, he and I have a very playful relationship. However I have a slight tendency to push his buttons once in a while.Well, it seems that last night he was in more of a mood to push back and finally...I received a well-deserved spanking. I am not an owned submissive, I am not anyone's property, however last night I was totally in his thrall. I begged, pleaded, cajoled, bargained, whined, wheedled, squirmed, cried and tried everything else in my fairy bag of tricks...all to no avail.~Sighs, happily~ Sometimes a fairy just needs a good spanking. Even a sweet reasonable, level headed fairy, such as myself!

Bubble dancing

I often recieve messages as notecards or IMs when I log into world, that are to do with this 'blog. It usually surprises me, since I assume that I am one of the 3 readers. The comment that I cherish the most was a quick IM complimenting the accuracy, and fairness of a recent, if not somewhat controversial couple of postings (I really do try to be sound unbiased.)
It is not as if I care if I upset a few people, because I find vitriolic diatribe so very tiresome. Something inside of me cannot help but point out the blatant inconsistency of slamming people with undercover alts when that same person not only has them, but threatens people with them as well. Comon, anyone coming from an RP background, would be used to people having several alts. It was not until I came to sl that I found that this was an issue.
Writing a 'blog is a bit like dancing on a bubble. Any moment those screeching contradiction of statements might poke through and all will *pop* There goes credibility! I am happy to tell readers how I think or feel. I just do not want anyone to think that if they do not agree with me, I will denigrate them in pixels. This is not a bully pulpit. It is strictly a chronicle of my journey through sl.

There is plenty of room for all of the choices we have. I think that we should stop worrying about what others are doing and just relax and have fun!

Oh and the bubbles that I am sitting on are available at a place called Happymood. You can find all sorts of delightfully fun objects for the well appointed fairy, nymph or just for fun !

My kink is better than yours!

Let's face it, we are all wired differently. What makes blood rush thru my veins at a great clip...could very well leave someone else cold. (I doubt it, but it could happen!) So many choices, so little time!
Checklists are available that cover almost every activity/kink imaginable...and some that are beyond imagination...at least for me. I discovered this while in the process of listing my limits in world. I came across a kink that, in sl, is offered in a fashion I had not thought possible.

For me, the very idea was so abhorrent, my aversion so strong, that when placing my limits in my profile...'emphatic' would be a mild word for describing my aversion to the activity. That does not mean that the people onto that activity are wrong...it just means, it will not fit my particular needs.

In bdsm, (rl and sl) there is an us/them judgmental process that occurs. While we accept that one person's pain or humiliation is another's pleasure... there is a certain intolerance for some kinks. I am not talking about ones that could even be considered dangerous...the attitude is more of, "My kink is better then yours."

Here, where we can be anything we want... a fairy...a neko... a vampire... a Centaur ... a doll ...a furry .... ( I seem to have a personal affinity for the otters) Alts are often created by some who wish to explore some of the less accepted activities. Whatever form or need being explored by your avatar, the key is SSC. (Safe, Sane and consensual)

Safe~Physical safety is pretty much about as assured as you can get on sl , unless there is someone without any sense,(impaired) following the directions of another with as little sense, or at least lacking the sensibility to know or care about the danger.

Sane~Well... see the last statement...However, that said... Mental safety is still very much at risk. Remember there is a big red X in the corner, but sometimes, by the time that is used, the damage has already been done.

Consensual~ Consent is a tough one. Some say that by merely being here consent is implied. Some tout that to have consent all parties involved need to know everything about the other parties... or it is a lie. Does someone have to be fully informed ...do they have a right to know everything about the person they are playing with to consent? Probably not. I reserve my information to a select few.
So what does this mean for me? (Since no one is free of preconceived notions, even me)
Hopefully, the next time I see someone with a Dolcett tag over his head I will try to remember that he is probably looking at my fairy wings with an *eye roll* and a shudder...because there is a good chance he is thinking his kink is SO MUCH better than mine.
(On the other hand, maybe...dessert?)

A New look for Nayeli

A peaceful valley nestled next to the republic of Glint. An oasis...
Shangri-La if you will.



Come and swim in the deep blue waters with mermaids~

Swing peacfully, from one of the magical trees~

Consort with Nymphs,fairies, sluts...all sorts of magical creatures~
This is a beautiful build, well worth visiting...

All my eggs in one basket?

Recently, someone mentioned using an alt to get through the system of a rival. This piqued my curiosity so I decided to ask several people questions about alts. SL itself, estimates that there are several alts per user.


Some people have very strong feelings about the use of alts. They see it as some sort of a character flaw. Others, like the person who said that she would use an alt to sneak through a testing system, see it as a practical solution. As an entity, SL offers a certain anonymity the moment you create an avatar. The avatar is an alt in itself. Does setting up a separate account constitute a weakness of character, or the ability use the medium to a further extent?


When asked, many people have said that they have alts. I suspect that the reasons are almost as different as the amount of users. I have heard of sex alts, sub alts, Dom alts. furry alts, neko alts, vampire alts, gamer alts, transgender alts and sci fi alts. There are alts used for RP, (role play) that enrich the story line, and alts that people have created to escape the history they have written as that avatar.


Some people that create alts do so to to explore different parts of their personalities. These people refer to their "main" avatar. That would be the one that the person most closely relates to,or it can be the "banker" alt. Some create alts to wreak havoc as a griefer. (Not nice.) Some use alts as investigators, or to just have that chance to be anonymous again.


Is it wrong to have an alt? One girl told me that if she only had one character on sl it would be like having all of her eggs in one basket. She said, " I am limited in rl, why should I be limited in sl?" The question alts becomes one that each person must answer for him or herself.

Me, I think that it would be very expensive, and my time is so limited, it is not even an option that I can entertain. Besides, I am already a fairy, mermaid, OBGYN, submissive, and Alice the 'blogger.

I think that is enough, for now.

Clinic Madness!!

I had a crazy rl week, last week, with a lot of commitments. I know how boring that must be to most of you.

OK... both of you that actually take the time to read the 'blog. But I have had a wild ride in the last week, only to return to sl in a rush!

It was time to open the OB clinic on Nayeli. The design and build was by Jacobius Bravin. The clinic was furnished by your humble blogger. It is rumored that La Presidente may be visiting the site soon, for her first ultrasound. The location has been kept top secret!

Stay tuned!

Pippa Andretti, stepping through the looking glass to act as fairy Doctor, OBGYN to nymphs~

Spinner...or...what is it with guys anyway?

Speaking of limits...

OK it is not really a limit but what is it about guys and having to mention my height?

I am very nearly 5 feet tall. I know that in sl where the women are all 6'8" That may be unusual...but really!!

I like the way, I am and it happens to be the perfect height for a fairy, not an Amazon, so there!

And one other thing? I had to ask around to find out what a spinner was.... really...I am not sure if they have overinflated....ummm egos... or they think that even at 4'11"...oh nevermind!

That's the limit!

I was reminded recently that I need to place my limits in my profile, but I was also reminded that not all limits are things that you can state at all, simply because I may not be aware of them as possibilities.

There are things that can be done in sl that really I cannot imagine being possible in rl. Though with a little imagination, I guess... some of it might be possible?

Knowledge, it is a good thing but also what got Eve the bad rep. I have a few questions before I start to place my limits in my profile.

Am I supposed to know about all of the possible kinks to put them on a list?

What do I do if I do encounter one that I am not aware of?

There are ways of taking care of these things.

~~Safewords~~

For the love of rope...

Rope..gotta love it! I was giving a tour last night of the most beautiful place! It is a house of shibari created by Ma'am's slut.

This house is a place of grace and beauty. Something well worth seeing and experiencing. Slut has really outdone herself this time!

The house is only open to the Certified Role players of the Dark Den...So if you are a member of the Certified RP group or if you are a guest of a member...do not pass the opportunity to experience it! The ropes look better on a naked body, but I was not with Ma'am at the time.

On a side note... about rl rope bondage...

Rope bondage is something that I dearly love in real life. I love the beauty of the ropes as well as the physical restraint. There are several legitimate sites that offer Dojos or classes in the fine art. At just such a class you will learn which ropes work for which purposes, and how to practice in a safe sane and consentual environment.

I must say, the purists tend to like hemp...I do not. But it is a matter of both asthetic tastes and ...

OK, let's be honest... hemp just does not slip as easily as rope so usually someone in my particular position...which do you think that I would prefer?

Warrior nymph? Fairy warrior? Or runs with scissors?

In my short time at Dark Den I have spent more time in a bubble, on my back like a turtle than I care to relate. There is a fine line of weapons made for the smaller amoungst us called "Warrior Nymph." I have been encouraged to hone my skill with these tools... What skills??

I would have to say that I can do more damage with my credit card shopping than any havoc that could be wrought by steel.

I have always preferred to use my wits than force in any situation, but with Ma'am bringing a successor into the world, the times call for something more drastic.

Now, I do not expect to become proficient any time soon, but I would love to be able to stay out of one of those blasted bubbles for a few days at least!

Meeting New People.

Well as you know, I am pretty new to SL.

So, I tend to wander. I am sometimes shopping, sometimes discovering. Most of the places I go I find because I have been profile drilling.

As I wander around, many times I end up talking to someone. This time I was lucky enough to find my way to the Faery Crossing.

I am not sure of the details so if I am wrong they should feel free to correct me....

It is a lovely place consisting of 9 sims. I have only visited the market where I made the Lindens very happy, I think. The beauty and gentility that I found in this place was beyond anything I had expected to find. I am always surprised by the creativity here in sl. But this surpassed all expectaions. The lady that spoke to me ther told me that they have even created a gateway to teach newcomers about the area and the expectaions for behavior.

I was complimented when she told me that by my demeanor and dress I would fit right in. But I do plan to visit the gateway soon since I strongly believe in the adage about being in Rome...

BTW I have connected my profile to this BLOG and every once in a while someone makes a comment about it. Usually it is someone who asks me about my involvement with rl D/s and how it differs with sl D/s. I have run into some interesting aspects here in sl. I think that I should address them in a later post.

The second pic is of an area on Nayeli for Fairies and Mermaids and anyone that wishes to cuddle. (With or without a leash.)

Where the red cube led me...

One day, after I had been introduced to the Dark Den red cube intended for the role play certification (More on that in a later post) I ventured there.

The lights grew dim, sl, was having its version of a brown out and I was left alone on the sim, (almost)unable to tp out, and pretty sure that if I tried I would be one of the casualties...as I watched the counter of on-line log ins for sl drop to under 30K for people in world Now was my chance to explore the Den without fear of kidnap or enslavement, or so I thought.

I was aware of only one other person on the sim. This was beast, the alter ego, half sister, would be uni-bomber of Dark Den. (recently re-programmed)

She offered to give me a tour of the Country of Glint. During this time we talked about many things. I had not learned to log conversations yet, so I have not idea what it was we talked about. But I do know one thing...

I was enchanted... I still am...

Impossible?

I have sometimes thought of as many as six impossible things before breakfast! (Lewis Carroll)

One of those things is to become fae or a fairy. Another...to be a mermaid...yet another...well, you will have to wait to discover that later!